Thursday, April 30, 2009
What do you like?
If so, what do you look for when buying handmade? Do you want things that have been locally harvested and woven or remind you of childhood? Do you look for clothing or more artistic things?
If not, what turns you off about handmade items? Do you think it's cheap if it doesn't have a brand name label? Is it too personal for you?
I'd love to hear your responses.
Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Busy, busy, busy...
We're trying to finish up homeschool for the year, and got behind when we were sick a few weeks ago. I've been working hard on advertising ideas and listing updates for my Etsy shop. The job search has taken up several hours (no news, yet.) I had some sort of volunteer activity every afternoon last week. Our Annual Boy Scout Yard Sale was this past Saturday, which took about 10 hours out of the day. (The Scouts make a killing off of this sale every year... Luckily, we had fantastic weather!)
Whew! It's nice to be able to take a breath this week. But, not for long. My yard is a mess. With the rain and other obligations I haven't been out to weed this year AND it's almost May. If I don't hurry I'll have more weeds than flowers.
As soon as I get it cleaned up a bit I'll post some photos of all of the things currently in bloom. My rose garden is so laden with blooms that several of the branches are falling over! What a wonderful fragrance to greet you in the garden...
Friday, April 24, 2009
Getting to know Etsy Day
Special thanks to schugirl for this fantastic idea. This image is copyrighted to be used only for Etsy Day.
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Lessons in Faith...
He led to me one about stories from the heart. This books contains snippets from various speakers and authors, some famous and some not so. I flipped to the section on Motivation.
I read the entire section and while all the stories resonated with me, two jumped out at me. One came back to me today.
I volunteer for a local senior program in various capacities, one of which allows me to visit a client in their home and spend an hour with them once a week. I've recently been assigned a new person. We instantly clicked the first time we met. Today was our third visit.
While we discuss many things, all of our conversations come back to God. That's perfectly fine with me. He's the reason that I have time to spend with her after all! She is very insightful. She has had a trying time for that last several years, healthwise, which leads to learning faithwise.
Today, as we were walking the neighborhood, she asked a great question -
"If God has a part to do and I have a part to do, how do I know which part is mine?"
An answer instantly popped into my head.
"All of it is God's part. We're just His workers."
She hesitated briefly and asked her question again, this time stressing,
My answer again was,
Her response,
Then this analogy came to me.
My new friend thought about that and digested it. When we arrived back at her home she talked to me about a lack of faith. What she got out of my thoughts was that she had a lack of faith where God was concerned. She prays many times a day, reads the bible regularly, and has been a Christian for well over 30 years. How on earth could she have a "lack of faith"?
Into my head pops one of the stories I'd read a few days ago. I read it. I liked it. I thought I'd understood it, until that moment. This is a synopsis of the story -
Two weeks ago I would've answered that question differently. These past few weeks have been a test in my faith. How far will I go? How far does my faith carry me? Do I fully trust in God to care for me when I'm on His missions?
Wednesday, April 22, 2009
The Job Search...
I considered sending out the resumes Monday morning but, thought that Monday is ALWAYS a busy day for applications. Perhaps waiting until Wednesday may garner some time for an extra look at mine...
Job Prospect 1 - Helping Developmentally Disabled youth to learn and master new skills over the summer, possibly extending into the fall.
This would fit right in line with my continued desire to serve, while providing an income. Double stars in my book!
Job Prospect 2 - Working in a local church office, elsewhere in the community, maintaining records alongside a large staff.
It fits into the working for a non-profit category. Not so great on the having a direct effect on peoples lives. One star.
Job Prospect 3 - Delivering ordered supplies to inmates in the local jail.
Definitely something I hadn't thought of before. It's serving the community and assisting at-risk people. Although my influence on these people would be limited, multitudes can be said with a smile. Double stars!
Just after applying for these positions my dear Mother called to ask for my e-mail address (she was at work.) Mom works at her church office, part-time. ( I think this helps offset the expense for the sock fetish...) She announced that she had just received a posting for part-time help at a local church of the same denomination. The kicker - this church is 6 blocks from my home! Woohoo! This gets four stars - I can walk to work, serving MY very own community, for a non-profit, and get paid. I don't think life could be any better than that!
I'm thinking that since this was an inner-office type posting that I will be one of the first to apply. Definitely a good thing!
Ya'll keep your fingers crossed for me, PLEASE...
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Misci - My Pre-50 list
Thomas, thank you for reading and caring enough to respond. What a precious person you are and how fortunate are the people who are lucky enough to be able to know you personally!
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We all have moments of regret stemming from memories of times past. A few days ago I was having some of those "remember when" moments. The moments turned into a great big "What in the world happened?" and "What am I doing with my life?" day. The day has now morphed into a "How am I going to get back on track? And do I even want to..." week.
It happens, right? No big deal.
This past year meant many changes for myself and my family. I felt a strong calling to serve my community more and, in answer to that call, left my full-time job of ten years. It wasn't something I did lightly. A lot of thought and planning went into the move. I even had some ducks lined up to tide us over, as we weren't in the perfect financial situation.
Unfortunately, the first duck flew off without the full payout, which left us with unanticipated bills remaining. The second duck was rejected and is basically dead in the water without further funding. The third duck laid a multitude of eggs, which all fertilized, and left us with more unexpected bills. You see where this is going....
In the midst of the duck saga, my son decided he wanted to be homeschooled this year due to many issues during his first year in middle school. The issues were leading to health problems and were changing him into someone he didn't even like, so I readily accepted the challenge. This was a large goose, come to roost...unexpectedly...
My dedication to the community has never wavered in all of this. It has actually grown stronger. As a family, we spend about 35 hours a week volunteering in some capacity or another. About 20-25 hours of that is mine, in an average week. This is such a bright spot in my life and a wonderful area of growth for my family. I would hate to give it up.
I'm stuck. I'm torn between an obligation to provide for my family and the heartfelt obligation I feel to serve God completely in this area. My prayers are continually answered with the feeling that I need to continue in my service. However, my faith is wavering on where the funds will come from to sustain us.
The sales at my store on e-Bay have dropped to almost nothing. My Etsy shop has yet to garner a sale. And I keep pushing. I'm afraid that if I wait any longer we may lose everything we have, which truly isn't all that much. Yet, that said, I'm even more afraid that I'll fail God in the quest He's given me.
So here's my baby steps to a "Pre-50 list" -
- Continue serving God and His people to the best of my ability.
- Search for and secure a part-time job as fast as possible.
- Continue praying for guidance.
- Continue homeschooling my son in the fall, because I feel it's the best education we can give him.
- Continue promoting my Etsy and e-Bay shops for another 2 months. If things don't pick up, I'll have to stop spinning my wheels there.
This post is not about pity or sympathy. It's about reality. It's about choices all of us face daily and how we choose to handle them. Do we get up and dust ourselves off or wallow in the dirt wondering why we keep getting dirt up our nose?
Is this the right answer for me? I won't know for a few weeks but, it's a chance I have to take or risk losing a roof over my head. Sadly, when I say that, I'm mentally confronted with all of the verses in the Bible that tell me that God will provide. So, am I misinterpreting my calling or not trusting enough??? That's a million dollar question...where's Miss Cleo when you need her?
Disclaimer: There were no ducks or geese hurt in the writing of this post!
Saturday, April 18, 2009
Memories and Regrets
- I haven't been outside of the U.S.
- I lost the confidence I once had somewhere around 18, settled for less than I should've many times over, and only recently regained this strength - through the grace of God.
- I'm in my early 30's and am far from being financially set.
Am I disappointed? A little. I wish I'd had the strength and courage long ago to continue on the path of my dreams. I wish I'd taken more time with my family and children to enjoy life along the way.
However, I've discovered that I've grown through these experiences. I no longer care about big houses, fancy cars, or plush living. I just want to be happy, healthy, and have time to serve others!
Many of us are faced with disappointments and discouraging factors daily. I think what matters the most is how we handle what we're given. Do we let these disappointments drive us off course or do we learn from them?
Where am I going from here? I'm not sure. I haven't attempted to make a plan in over 5 years, which is far too long. This is something I'll be working on this week - my goals, personally and familial. I challenge you to do the same. It's harder to be driven off track if you have a current map of the trip you need to take!
Wednesday, April 15, 2009
The Beach Trip
The morning began with a light, misting of rain which continued for the first 2 hours of our trip. We stopped 30 minutes into the trip to grab some breakfast at McDonald's. Yum! Nutritious! Somehow Mom ended up with a monster sized cup...
Thus began the humor in our trip. I brought along my son's school books, some crochet projects, and my newly aquired set of Trivial Pursuit cards. Did I tell you that I found a complete, original Trivial Pursuit set for $1??? Fantastic yard sale find!
These provided several hours of entertainment!
Upon arrival at Myrtle Beach, SC we proceeded straight to the Easy Spirit outlet store, off 501 near the old Waccamaw Pottery. Mom could hardly wait to procure her now famous socks! (They are Level 3 Athletic socks. Before you look on the Easy Spirit website, let me save you some time. They aren't listed!)
I headed off to browse the clearance section at the back of the store while she stocked up on socks. Before leaving I mentioned that the shoes were buy one, get one half-off (on top of their already lower than retail prices!) Mom said, "I don't need any more shoes, Danita. I have plenty."
When I came back to the counter 3 minutes later she had snagged 2 pairs of shoes and 6 packs of socks. What woman can resist a shoe sale, I ask you? The cashier was so slow ringing us out that Mom added 2 more packs of socks before she finished. They were on sale, too!
We visited the Reader's Digest store a few doors down. I'm a book fanatic and they had some tantalizing cookbooks in the window. Did I tell you about my cookbook collection? I have many... The best part was the educational section. Being a homeschool mom I'm constantly on the look out for educational material. We found an American trivia game, similar to Trivial Pursuit, for $7! Need I tell you what we did on the ride home? For some reason, a lot of Mom's answers were Cassius Clay. Never knew he was that involved in science and art...
After our brief shopping experience we headed up the road to Calabash, NC. It's about 1 hour from the south side of Myrtle Beach. Our tummy's were grumbling just in time for a visit to Tony's. Didn't I tell you she'd stop there?
It was a little crowded inside so I didn't photograph our food. Mom had her standard Steak and Cheese sub and I was in heaven with my House Special baby pizza. It's basically like a Surpreme pizza from Pizza Hut but, has many more black olives. My son, Caleb, waited to eat his breakfast biscuit after shopping. He wasn't hungry when we arrived at Tony's. Poor fellow. He missed a delicious meal!
The ride was pleasant, for the most part, and there were several bouts of laughing so hard that we almost peed our pants.
2 pairs of shoes
8 packs of socks - 2 pair per pack
1 photo box
1 American Trivia Game
3 McDonald's breakfasts
1 pack of bubble gum
1 Steak and Cheese sub
1 House Special baby pizza
Thousands of smiles
Can you think of a better way to spend the day?
Sunday, April 12, 2009
Happy Easter!
Greetings from "the Easter City", as Winston-Salem is known the world over.
Salem Brass Band, circa 1862, courtesy of the Moravian Archives
Over the years, the neighborhoods surrounding these Salem Congregation churches has changed. The band participants have aged and noise ordinances have been established, therefore the neighborhood serenades have diminished significantly. Fortunately, I live in one of the few remaining neighborhoods that do participate. There is nothing comparable with being lulled gently awake by the sounds of a brass band on Easter morning! Your heart awakens with a song and first thoughts of the Lord...
What are your Easter plans?
Thursday, April 9, 2009
It's a good thing...
Tuesday, on Martha, Jackie Manzolillo (she's married now and has another last name that I can't remember and the Martha Stewart website hasn't updated) shared a recipe for putting designs on to Easter eggs with printed silk fabric. This is the second time Jackie has shared this with Martha audiences. The first time she used silk ties and this week she used silk scarves.
Silk Tie Easter Eggs
From:
Martha
The Martha Stewart Show
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Materials and Tools:
Small- to medium-size raw eggs
Glass or enamel pot
Silk ties, blouses, or boxers, cut into pieces large enough to cover an egg
White sheets (or pillowcases or old tablecloths), cut into pieces to cover silk-wrapped eggs
Twist ties
3 tablespoons of white vinegar
Warm water
Vegetable oil
Paper towels
Tongs or spoon
How-To:
2. Wrap a raw egg with a piece of silk, making sure the printed side of the material is facing the egg. Silk can still be used if it doesn't fit perfectly around egg.
3. Place the silk-wrapped egg in a piece of white sheet, pillowcase, or old tablecloth and secure tightly with a twist-tie.
4. Place the egg(s) in an enamel or glass pot. Fill pot with water to cover eggs completely. Then, add three tablespoons of white vinegar.
6. Remove eggs from water with tongs or spoon and let cool.
7. Remove silk from cooled egg.
8. For shiny eggs, wipe with vegetable oil after completing step 7.
Resources:
- This would be a great time to go through your husband's or sons ties and get rid of some of those "too stained" or "to hideous" to wear jobs. The same thing goes for your closet - out with those silk scarves that you've never worn and aren't likely to.
- Pick some prints with unusual designs or bright colors. They transfer unbelievably well!
- You can line up smaller designs just right on the egg and they will carry over perfectly,so test out a few of these.
- DON'T coat the eggs with oil if you want to eat the eggs. Use an edible wax coating if you must have shiny eggs. You can pick this up at some craft stores or rub the eggs lightly with wax paper.
- Use this method as a lead in to learning more about German or Eastern European culture. Kids love hands-on learning lessons!
- Don't forget about reusing the egg cartons while you have so many readily available. I did a post about ideas for them in December.
How much better can you get? No stained fingers, no stained table or counter, no finding play clothes for the kids to dye in, and you can potentially recycle old clothing! This truly IS a good thing...
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Happy Birthday, Mom!
This was the conversation -
Side note on the sock story - One of Mom's best friends has a beach house and they went down the weekend before she left for Germany. There are many outlet stores in the area and they hit a few stores while there. She found "the best socks I've (she's) ever owned in my (her) entire life" at the Easy Spirit outlet. Upon her return and subsequent use of the few sets she picked up at the beach, she visited the local Easy Spirit store only to be told that the socks were very popular but not an item that they carry here in town due to space limitations. Don't you hate it when that happens?
Back to the conversation...
Saturday, April 4, 2009
I'm a winner, too!
What did I get? A Chick-Fil-a fan with a cow face, a calendar with additional coupons, a t-shirt (because who doesn't need another t-shirt????), a miniature cow, and FREE BREAKFAST COUPONS FOR A YEAR! Woo-hoo!
The million dollar question...
Jotting down the names from the entries
Clipping the names apart
Into the pot
And......back out
Drum roll, please....dadadadadadadadadadadadadada
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Hooray, Anne Marie! Congratulations. I hope you put them to good use for many years to come!
The cloths are wrapped
and ready to go. Just need to get your address and they'll be on the way.
Thanks to all of the people who took time to enter and browse my blog. So sorry there could only be one winner. If you're interested in purchasing any of my other cloth sets or handmade creations please visit my store on Etsy - La Vida Dulce.